How does it feel.....being extorted ???

This is my question to every women or girl...How does it feel????

I fail to understand the term "Friendship" when it is asked by a Boss! or a 30-40 year old man ! or may be just a Man, they don't need a age to exploit.....I went for an interview yesterday, everything was finalized I was told by the manager that I'll get the job...I was so happy, I started imagining how things will change, how I'm gonna save etc...but then shortly I realized It had a condition, That Manager told me that "I don't want a professional person I want someone who can be more Friendly" these were the words of that manager, it was like scratching me with a sharp knife!!!

I know I'm not the only one, 10 out of 10 women had faced it, but why??? I could have shouted at him right there when he said that....I could have done something ..something ... slapped his face may be, but I kept quiet ...I kept quiet becoz i was hurt, i didnt expected this, and i left.....

and this is what we all do....we leave ...we keep quiet....we don't say anything....whyyy...becoz nobody would believe us!!! even if we are right no one would believe us....I hate this feeling, this is not the first time ...but why every time????

There is no legal right in our country to protect a woman!!! it makes me feel unsafe, its soooo very much easy for any guy to point out or question a woman's character, to spread rumors about her and of course the society enjoys it.....but the woman can't confront it ...she can't becoz there is no Legal rights for her protection.....

I can never forget the first time I felt I should raise voice..... after gathering a lot of courage I went to a near by police station to complaint .....there were 7 police men sitting on one table chatting and laughing together.....as soon as I enter there eyes were checking me out....for God's sake I was there to ask for help...for the same reason!!! there eyes had it all ....how can a women confront the silent abuse???

may be I'm being punished for being a woman but I'm NOT ashamed of being a woman!!! I'm ashamed of " Men " in our society...not a single man has decency to stand with us, for us..... and so I keep silent.... !!! :(